John asks the question, "Why are you with them?" The reasons for being with a particular individual are as personal as you are. Making a conscious choice provides you with insight into your past as well as your future as well as how and why you move on from a relationship. After a breakup, loneliness can be a devastating reality but accept that it's part of the process and can be freeing to reinvent your future self.

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